Love and intelligence do not come from inside us; we live and move and have our being in Love-Intelligence, somewhat like fish in the sea. We do not produce intelligence; intelligence and love govern us.
– Dr. Hora, Hierarchy of Values
Moving from a life filled with frustration to one of joy occurs as we discern the difference between being compelled by wanting vs being drawn by what is loving. Instead of struggling with attempting to get what we want and providing what others want we can ask: What is really needed here?
We do not need to be governed by our “wants” and “shoulds.” We can become aware of a larger, loving, infinite governance – namely the harmony of the universe, the Divine Order of Existence. We are “in” it and “of” it and can rest in the assurance that inspired wisdom – love-intelligence – is continually guiding us.
Joy just is. It’s not in the lights or the stars, in getting or giving presents; nor is it in gathering with friends and family, although one might, or might not, be aware of joy in any of these experiences. Experiences come and go; joy is a spiritual quality that is unchanging. It manifests through awareness of it.